When a couple desires and plans to have a child, there are many aspects to consider in preparation for conception. These include the Mental, Emotional, Physical and Spiritual self. It is highly recommended in Islam to be AWARE of oneself, and one’s acts. The healthier and purer the heart, mind, and body is, the better… Continue reading Conception
Chapters
Pregnancy
During the pregnancy, just as during conception, the temperament and actions of both parents have a direct effect on the fetus. The mother must be careful to remain in a positive mood and continue to be aware that her thoughts, emotions and actions are directly absorbed by the child. Equally, it is the role of… Continue reading Pregnancy
Childbirth
Childbirth is a very beautiful and special time for the couple as they welcome their child into the world. It is also a very ‘trying’ time for the mother and requires a great deal of patience and strength on her part. Her demeanor during this time will leave a great impression on the newborn and… Continue reading Childbirth
Rituals After Childbirth
Once the well awaited child has arrived, we celebrate his/her birth and give thanks. This involves feeding the believers for the occasion of the child’s birth, and thus, it is highly recommended to invite family and friends on the 7th day after the birth of the child (or near that day) to share in the… Continue reading Rituals After Childbirth
Breast Feeding
Breast feeding is a great time of bonding between the mother and her child. It is at this time that she can talk to her child and interact with him/her giving a lot of love because this moment provides a direct connection where the impression on the child is enhanced. She may want to talk… Continue reading Breast Feeding
Comfort
In the overall care of the child, there are many areas that require attention, some of which are: Soothing a Crying Child Teething Bed Wetting Restoring the child to good health when he/she is sick Stopping the child from eating bad things Accompanying the child to speak Accompanying the child to walk Keeping the child… Continue reading Comfort
Personality Development
Most of the child’s mannerisms and discipline are learned through the example he/she is exposed to, not only the teachings. Therefore, it is very important to keep in mind to be a good example for one’s child. The child absorbs what he sees, learns it, and reproduces it. Similarly, it is important that the child… Continue reading Personality Development
A Gift to My Child
Some lovely advice and some beautiful prayers from a parent’s heart for their child. Connection, both through touch and fruitful conversation, with one’s child is what really gives them a good foundation of love, which they can then easily express in other relationships in their lives. Their involvement and responsibilities in the active home life,… Continue reading A Gift to My Child
A Gift to My Parents
The parents have a very high position in Islam. The right of the mother is that she carried you where no one carries anyone. You will not be able to show her gratitude except through Allah’s help. The right of your father is that he is your root. Without him, you would not be. Whenever you… Continue reading A Gift to My Parents
Salaat, Du’as & Ziyraats
We are so blessed with all the various du’as, salaats and ziyraats we have available to pray for all the different specificities that we may desire, as well as, the whispered prayers in our hearts. Throughout the book, Dear Child conveniently outlines the salaat, and the mentioned du’as and ziyraats, to be prayed in their very… Continue reading Salaat, Du’as & Ziyraats